You Aren't Transphobic. The World Has Just Bought Into Lies.
If you’ve been slapped with this label, then you are probably like me. You are holding onto the scandalous idea that there are only two genders instead of accepting the belief that gender is a spectrum and there are an infinite number of genders to choose from. Forget that male and female have thousands of years of history, is recognized by every country on the planet, is supported by basic biology and is a truth that will exist long after we are gone. You need to reject the fundamental truth you knew your whole life and believe whatever the gender theorist wants you to believe. No matter how wild or obscure it might seem.
If an individual decides they are “Gender Fluid”, meaning their “gender identity” changes over time, you have to accept that. Even if one minute they identify as a girl, then the next they identify as a man; you just have to go along with it. If you don’t, if you ask even the simplest of questions or suggest something otherwise, you are transphobic bigot. At least that’s what the LGBT+ community will tell you anyway.
But I’m here to tell you something different; I’m here to tell you the truth. You are not transphobic because you refuse to buy into the radical idea that gender is fluid. It isn’t. You aren’t transphobic because you recognize biological reality. You aren’t transphobic because you refuse to say “trans women are women”. You aren’t transphobic because you believe God’s Word is Truth. You aren’t transphobic because you refuse to affirm what you know in your heart-of-hearts to be a lie.
Don’t let them gaslight you. You’re not crazy, that is, as long as you hold fast to the truth. See, they want you to feel like you're crazy. They want you to feel shame for recognizing a truth so fundamental even my 4-year-old can see it. They want you to deny what you see with your own two eyes because if they can get you to believe men can be women or women can be men; they got you. They have your mind. They have gotten you to concede truth in favor of their own misguided self-perception. Don’t let it get that far. Don’t give them an inch. Don’t go along with what you know to be wrong.
You aren’t crazy. You aren’t transphobic. You aren’t bigoted. You still recognize truth and in an age of lies and that is a beautiful thing.
The Daily Wire’s Matt Walsh wrote this in his book Unholy Trinity: Blocking the Left's Assault on Life, Marriage, and Gender
”The truth is what wins a person’s heart and mind. The truth is what lights a fire inside them. The truth motivates. The truth stirs the apathetic and wakes the sleeping. It moves the sedentary and excites the lethargic. The truth destroys tyrants and builds empires.”
If we are going to win minds and hearts; we need to find courage. We need to take heart. The truth won’t prevail if we shrink back the moment a label is slapped on us. And in an age dominated by lies, we need to be people who boldly say what is true. No matter the cost.
The truth will cost you, but a lie will damn you. You’re going to be labelled. You’re going to be slandered. You may even be met with violence but we can’t allow the lies to take root and rob the next generation of what we know to be true.
See, those who have their identities wrapped up in lies will respond viscerally when those lies are met with truth. This is why they need you to affirm it because without your affirmation, the lies crumble.
Our participation is the very thing that keeps the lie going; the moment we stop playing along, the moment we recognize the lie for what it truly is, it loses it’s power. It’s time to wake up because the world is under a spell. It’s bought into the lie and we can’t allow it to maintain power over us. We threaten that power every time we refuse to go along with something we know not to be true. Don’t betray yourself by giving in. Let the truth permeate through you and watch as the lies melt away.
There won’t be any label that will be able to move you because the truth sets you on an immovable foundation. You know the truth but just in case you forgot, let me remind you. You aren’t transphobic. You aren’t bigoted. You aren’t hateful. You love the truth and know exactly who you are. Even if the whole word buys into the lie, cling desperately to what you know to be true.
The truth is an all-consuming fire and just one tiny little spark can set the world ablaze.